35 yr old mid life crisis

So I turned 35 and not so happy. Have a wonderful life so I know that I should be happy with my blessings. But it just didn't turn out the way I had planned (does anything?)

So if I'm going to have the midlife crisis early . . . might as well do it with a different 'do. I am now a blonde. Good response so far . . . let me know what you think.